Managing Conflicts

okay, believed that everybody will go through conflicts with people around you..
actually when conflicts arises, you will always think that you are the right one.
sometimes it may be good to put youself into other people's shoes to view things, because different people has different view, opinions towards certain things.

It not only help us to view from another angle, it also helps us to be aware of things happening around. Sometimes, people tends to say some mean and hurtful words to the other party in a conflict, Which i feel that there isn't a need to, as it doesn't solve the conflict, thus, managing anger is very important. Sometimes when you bring out the bad habits or the problem in the past the person has in a conflict, you will think of your very own self, what you said is actually what you are doing so too; it actually helps to release your mistakes while saying people.

i personally feel that, in a conflict, it is better to say out what you feel towards the issue, and not towards what the person had done wrong. Also not to put all the blame on the person for the conflict, as you, yourself are also contributing to it. I would choose not to be in a conflict, because involving in a conflict really makes a relationship in a bad state. Making friends are easy, maintaining it is difficult. Being together in a family, or getting to know each other is an affinity. If both are willing to solve the conflict, sit down clamly, talk and understand what is the issue, say what they are both feeling towards it, it actually strenghtens the relationship and thus, conflict resolves. If not, i guess one will have to give in first, then after sometime, get back to the person and discuss the issue.

Who wants to be in a conflict? guess no one wants.
so managing your anger and manging conflict is very important.